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Bringing Back the Goddess

Published on December 20, 2010

The World Cries with Connecticut

Franciszek C. Kulon

Have you ever noticed that the great masters often painted the angels as children? Here above we see the angels surrounding the mother, the woman, Mother Mary, or what can simply be viewed as the Goddess by many. The Goddess is a spirit as great as God, for there is only one God, one greatness of the Oneness of Being. The Goddess though represents a gentler, empathetic, and more compassionate God than the one found in the Old Testament.

Many times I have heard women say that if only they ruled the human heap we would not have more wars and I think of Margaret Thatcher. But then I agree, it’s the male ego and the male God that haunts everything from boardrooms to banks to the military, and even medicine is adulterated with the sickness of the egotistical macho man. Many women have caught this disease though they fool us pretty well with their smiles and skirts.

If you are one of those strange people who thinks mothering does not matter see the recent research that shows that a loving mother who kisses her child’s boo-boos is providing actual health benefits. New research indicates that can have a lasting effect on health by influencing a person’s risk for chronic inflammation, the immune reaction that is the body’s first line of defense against disease. Subjects who had a warm bond with mom expressed fewer genetic markers of inflammation, which over time can take a toll on the body. Genetic markers are molecules that indicate a gene is being actively turned into protein, in this case proteins that contribute to inflammation. The finding, published online May 18 in Molecular Psychiatry, fits with data indicating that close family ties can protect children from inflammation and disease.

In another recent study, published online April 29 in Psychological Science, researchers found that adolescent girls who reported having harsh family lives growing up—abusive, neglectful or violent—had increasing markers of inflammation during the 18-month study period compared with girls who came from more stable homes. Children are sensitive—extremely so—but they obviously don’t teach doctors and nurses about this. Negative early childhood experiences can actually reduce a person’s life span.

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Behind every great man lies a great woman and behind her is her man who stands tall in every way. It is an interesting dance of power between strong men and women but in the end the man has to be the man and the woman the woman, though roles pass back and forth depending on circumstances. But when the two fires merge as equal complementary flames then heaven can be experienced right down here on planet earth.


Imagine the purest and most loving being that ever existed on this planet. Now imagine how this being would love his wife. Imagine how the wife would love this beautiful being. This is how I saw the Christ story and this is how I see my wife. The basic tenant of the Marriage of Souls is openness. For the heart to breathe there needs to be openness, not closed family systems where the ego can rule as king. The ego rules through separation, the heart through openness and love. The Marriage of Souls stretches our limits for when we love more we are more. Everyone wants to know and experience their true being; and this being is most directly felt and experienced through the experience of love.

This is my goddess and I do worship her as the Divine Mother of my children and even of my own heart and soul. It is rare to get a shot of her without her famous winning smile but this picture really captures her stunning beauty that is more than skin deep. From the moment I met her when she was quite young I noticed that she was someone with an especially beautiful being and I felt married to her in my soul long before our first kiss.

When I wrote about our Sanctuary Shrine for the Holy Mother Mary someone wrote me saying, “You have been so blessed. You must ask why? Why would God permit the Mother of the Christ to be experienced by you unless He has a purpose, a mission for you? The Mother of Jesus is the mother of all of us. She is not a goddess, only the most perfect human being God ever created.”

You will see in the essay about the shrine my expressions of feelings of direct connection between my wife and the coming of Mary into my life and this all gets rolled into some giant ball of wax in terms of my mission and purpose in this life. It also speaks of my blessedness of having not only the Goddess inspiring my life from above but also from the side of having the Goddess in physical form nurturing me every day of my life. My beloved wife has inspired me to a level of love I call Divine Romance, which is a level of passion and love that has no end.


When the vulnerability of being meets up with an equal vulnerability of being a strong bonding force is naturally set up between these two beings. Open hearts can do nothing but love and when two such hearts meet explosions of love are made manifest and there is nothing we, or anyone else can do about it. No power on earth can dissolve the love of two persons if that love be true.

Yes I just had to share her smile with you after mentioning it. You all should know that behind me is a great woman who knows everything about beauty and grace. She is more beautiful in her soul than I could hope to be. I might be more creative but where it counts in everyday life she wins the hand all the time. I certainly had a lot to learn about love and about becoming loving and beautiful myself to deserve such a woman. I count the decades and the seas of suffering that it took to learn about my own self-blindness—my ego that separated me from everything and everybody else.

Special Note: This post is my holiday gift to my readers and it’s a good time for everyone to recognize the common source of many of our traditions and holidays.

The New York Times printed today, “The transition from Roman paganism to Christianity, with its similar rites, took several centuries. With the Emperor Constantine’s conversion to Christianity in the fourth century, customs were quickly appropriated and refashioned, as the sun and God’s son became inextricably entwined. Thus, although the New Testament gives no indication of Christ’s actual birthday (early writers preferring a spring date), in 354 Pope Liberius declared it to have befallen on Dec. 25. The advantages of Christmas Day being celebrated then were obvious. As the Christian commentator Syrus wrote: “It was a custom of the pagans to celebrate on the same Dec. 25 the birthday of the sun, at which they kindled lights in token of festivity …. Accordingly, when the church authorities perceived that the Christians had a leaning to this festival, they took counsel and resolved that the true Nativity should be solemnized on that day.”

There are many ways to worship what is most high in this universe of ours and one of the greatest worships is found in the shaping of our own worth. The point of religion and worship is to somehow get oneself out of one’s own ego, out of one’s own sense of self or self-consciousness. There are many ways to do this but the ones that slowly transform our gross ego self into something a bit more refined are the ones we are looking for. Love is what this is all about.

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  • Dr. Sircus

    Well it was very nice for me to just visit this page after posting about it on Facebook today. Of course all of these words are burned into my soul and in reality Mary becomes one with my wife and it is a most beautiful thing. And for sure I whisper and sometimes cry these words of love for her over and over each and every day.

  • Laura

    Hi Mark,
    Merry Christmas to you as well.
    My partner and myself would probably enjoy you and your wife’s company. We find ourselves wanting to hang out with other couples/ people who have low to no egos, being heartfelt, as well as taking in the consideration of the state of the world and current system, while maintaining health and wellness.
    It gives me joy to read this and see your success in relationship with yourself, and wife, the value you give to intimacy,…And brings me smiles that others are creating this in their lives!

    Love, Joy, and warm Christmas Light

  • Sharron

    We know from the scriptures that even Satan himself can come as an ‘angel of light’ ( 2 Corinthians chapter 11 verse 14), so we must ask ourselves of any encounter, is this from the Father, from our self or from the Evil One?

    If a dream, experience, prophesy, or teaching does not line up with scripture we should at the least but suspect of it and at the most turn from it as being a possible trick of the Evil One.

    John chapter 14 verse 6 says “Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.”

    Studying the Word of God takes time, humility and a ‘putting aside’ of man’s ideas formed from religion/tradition. Search the scriptures; be wary of opening yourself up to any and every supernatural/new age/humanistic philosophy and experience – your eternal soul is at stake so it is truly worth the effort to compare your experiences with the testimony of scripture and to ask the Father to remove anything that is not Truth.

  • Solveig Knutsen

    Dear Mark, did you ever think of becoming a priest? You realy could heal people just
    with words. You have a blessing in your life that ranges higher than all your blessed
    knowledge, and that is putting words together ina way that attrackts most human
    beings. You must have done a lot of good in your previous lives too.. Sunny.

  • Tim

    Certainly the Lord had an especially close relationship with Mary. As he did with John, “the disciple whom Jesus loved.” But these relationships were incidental to His purpose on Earth; although clearly associated with it. But He came to do the will of His Father; that was, is, and ever will be, His primary motivation; and it should be ours too. “I do always those things that please the Father”. The first commandment “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, with all thy strength, and with all thy mind, and thy neighbour as thyself” tells us that we should never put any person between us and the Father; otherwise that person has become an idol.
    The NYT article was interesting, stating as it does, that it was Christianity that Constantine embraced. Actually, he embraced what would become known as Catholicism, which is a completely different thing. He would have more willingly and appropriately embraced Nazism, had he seen a swastika in the sky that day, instead of a cross. Rome was a fascist empire, identical in every way to today’s empires. He was not moved by Christ’s beauty, or by a spirit of faith and repentance, but by a desire to overcome his enemies, not with love, but with violence and murder. Accordingly therefore, one should be extremely cautious about any doctrines which arise from that religion, in particular, the doctrine about Mary as an equivalent being to the pagan goddesses of old. Remember that when the Lord was told that His mother and the disciples were wishing to speak to Him, he replied “For whosoever does my Father’s will which is in heaven, the same is my brother, sister, and mother”. (Matthew 12). And again in John 2, when His mother spoke to Him and tried to get Him to turn water into wine, he said “Woman, what have I to do with thee?”
    “He that hath ears to hear, let him hear”.

  • David

    Dr Mark,

    I am happy you are happy. No doubt, you have a loving family. I , however, know for a fact that there are no goddesses on Earth. There are no Gods on Earth. There is only SOUL and DARK SIDE. So it is raw ethical and moral effort that you are paying tribute to. That is what it takes to survive satan.

    I, therefore, do not share the popular platitudes expressed here, but commend you and yours for the vigilance you have shown against satan!

  • Ron Rattner

    Beautifully expressed. Thank you for your heartfelt sharing.
    Yes, “Love is what this is all about.”

    May Love become our new universal religion.
    Eg. see

    Infuse us, enthuse us, and use us to bless all life as Love!”

  • Tim Hanley

    Very much appreciated, Dr. Sircus. The alchemical marriage of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine is what will herald in the coming New World, the way I see it.



    WE WHO ENDURE TO THE END SHALL BE SAVED, WE ARE BEING SAVED, HAVING ACCEPTED THE GIFT OF SALVATION WITH OPEN HANDS. I AM REMINDED OF OUR ADOPTION AT THE FOOT OF THE CROSS WHEN JESUS THE CHRIST SAID TO JOHN, “BEHOLD THY MOTHER” AFTER HE’D TOLD HER “WOMAN, BEHOLD THY SON.” JN 19; 25 – 27 And from that hour the disciple took her into his home. Another scripture that came to my mind while reading your article, was Matt. 19; 1 thru 7, ….”What therefore GOD has joined together, let no man put asunder.” I’m a thorn in my husband’s side, and a help mate. God, Christ, Man, Woman Family is a beautiful Blessed Unit. I appreciate your studies, research and donations to mankind. So be it

  • Gerald

    Hi doc frist I’d like to say I do appreciate all that you have done to help educate us in regard to our health matters . God bless you. I would like to hear more details in regards to the visitation of Mary you had refered to in a previous post.only if it something you would like to share.

  • Joyce

    A well earned and deserved tribute to your wife. May it remain the same until death do you part.

    While some might envy your relationship, knowing that such relationships do exist also brings me happiness.

  • krish

    very enlightening.Rarely have we seen someone who can talk about natural cures and medicine on the one hand then talk about God so eloquently and publicallyconfess his love and the beauty of his wife.I have the greatest respect and admiration for you.
    My love to you and your beautiful wife.Hope we can meet sometime.
    God bless.